Someone I was dating very often manipulated me into having sex with them (cry because they felt unattractive/unwanted, getting angry, ignoring my saying no - and continuing sex). They often (in other situations) fly off the handle as far as anger went, and have violent outbursts. I never “fought” because I was scared of what might happen. Because it wasn’t a violent attack it took a long time to come to terms and a long time for the effects to hit me. Now I cry/panic irrationally react to things.